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Lauren posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 27, 2011
It is amazing, in the last 6 months I am really realizing how much I am you. The way you behaved and the way you felt things. I truly feel for the first time how connected we really are. I love you and miss you as always. We will dance again daddy!!!
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Jamie posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 25, 2011
I miss you Dad. I miss seeing "Dad" pop up after my phone would ring. I miss the bond we had. I will always feel a strong connection with you. Joey and Brianna are kids now, they are no longer babies. Brianna started dance class. I bring Joey to the driving range when Michelle brings Brianna to dance. I am so proud of them, I know you would be too. Joey carried a ball 15 yards and it rolled another yard, I walked it off at the range. I probably looked a little crazy walking into the middle of the range but he cracked one and I had to see how far it went. You would have done the same thing. Mom got Joey and Brianna their own real set of clubs for their Birthday, he hit the 16 yard shot with his hybrid. We play with them in the yard sometimes too. I wish you could sit next to me and watch Brianna color a picture and Joey put together a puzzle, you would be impressed by both. They both have their own little things, they do them so well. It's tough without you here. We always keep you part of our lives. My kids look at pictures of you all the time in the book Lauren made. I love you.
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Cheryl posted a condolence
Friday, November 5, 2010
It is almost a year, whoever said time heals, LIED! The pain is unbearable sometimes, I miss you so much, some days are hard to get through. I relive each day remembering what I was doing, with you, last year at this time and continue to ask the question, WHY? I worry so much about our kids, they are strong, but not as strong as they appear. Our grandchildren are incredible, I know you watch over them, protect them and love them with all your heart, I just you were here so we could all watch you enjoy them, tease them, tell them funny stories and give them your "special" nickname. We all try and figure out what that name would be but I don't think we will really ever know. I just wanted to say I miss you and love you with all my heart. Yours forever.
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Stephen Klein posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
I wish I got to say goodbye. I think about you all the time. I have so many memories of you that can never be replaced. They are memories so crazy that you could have only created. One of my favorite was the weeks we spent creating your website. You, Lauren, and Me. We spent countless nights up until 3 in the morning, and every night you would have to pick up your golf club and take practice swings inside the house. We have shared some great memories.
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Cheryl posted a condolence
Sunday, February 7, 2010
Jimmy, "my baby", don't know what I am suppose to do... I feel like I am just existing... I miss you so much... I hurt so bad, the kids are devistated. Help me to know what to do for them. I love you so much. I hate the words "time heals", I don't want time to pass, I want you to come home, it is so quiet here. I will visit you today and then what? Joey and Brianna are growing up so fast, they love each other so and protect each other, Jamie and Michelle are such good parents. Our new grandchild will be here soon, Glen and Andria are so ready to welcome their precious little angel please protect them. I know you are watching over our "little girl" Lauren, keep her safe, you should see the incredible memory book she made, so much love portrayed, what a testiment to your life. We all miss you so much, today is the Superbowl... nothing is the same. Hold us tight in your arms. I love you.
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Jamie posted a condolence
Monday, January 4, 2010
Dad, Brianna walked over to a picture of you yesterday at your house, the one where you are with Joey and Brianna the day we carved pumpkins, she was pointing at you and saying pa-pa. Love you.
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Glen posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Dad, I finished the nursery today. Just some minor touch-up left. I have been thinking about you the whole time. I cleaned my brushes the way you showed me. Mom helped pick the colors. She saw it today. I love you.
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Maura Cole McCormack posted a condolence
Sunday, December 27, 2009
Cheryl - not sure if you remember me, we worked at LHYMCA childcare together 20 years ago along with Lynn.....So sorry to hear about your Husband, I am thinking of you.....
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Jamie posted a condolence
Saturday, December 26, 2009
Merry Christmas Dad. Joey got a toy golf set today for Christmas. I helped him hit the golf ball. Helped Brianna hit a few also. Missed you so much yesterday and today, love you.
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Glen posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
Dad, I miss you more everyday. We think about you and talk about you all the time. I wish we had more time together...
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Jamie posted a condolence
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Dad, thinking about you, hurting right now, wish you were in my living room right now with me, Michelle, Joey & Brianna watching football or golf or whatever. Looked at Joey and had a moment. Miss you so much. Gloey is still smiling with his eyes. Brianna is calling the Christmas tree a "wow". Love you.
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Glen posted a condolence
Thursday, December 10, 2009
Dad, we miss you. The nursery is coming along. I wish you were able to work on it with me. It is quiet doing it alone and gives me time to think. I am so thankfull for all the great memories you left with us. Give Lilinic a kiss. We love you.
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Andria DiOrio posted a condolence
Monday, December 7, 2009
Dad, I will always remember how you made me laugh. I will miss you more than words can say. I also want to thank you for leaving a piece of you behind in Glen so that I can remember you everyday. Watch over us and protect us (especially Lilinic). Not everyone gets to meet their child's guardian angel-I KNOW you will be with us. I love you and will always miss you.
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The Eulogy posted a condolence
Monday, December 7, 2009
On behalf of the DiOrio family, we would like to thank all of you for your love and support.
Losing a loved one is one of the most difficult things one can go through in life. Losing one before their time makes it so much harder.
Words can’t express the pain our family is feeling right now.
Holding on to the many memories we share will help us to use his strength, wisdom and most importantly his love to guide us and heal as a family.
James Joseph DiOrio Jr. was special Man, Husband, Father, Grandfather, Son, Brother, Nephew, Uncle and Friend. He was loving, caring and big hearted.
I remember how Dad always had little tests and challenges for us growing up, whether they were mental or physical. When I came up with the answer, or completed the task, I was so proud to let him know, and he was proud to know his child succeeded.
Dad always pushed for us to do better than we were currently doing. At times I misunderstood and asked myself if what I doing was good enough.
I always ended up realizing that he was guiding us towards growth, achievement, and success. Seeing the proud look in his eyes at each of his children’s major accomplishments allowed me to realize that each little test and challenge along the road had built us into better people.
Dad had a knack for finding the lighter side of a situation when it was needed the most and always knew how to make people laugh.
His personality made him impossible to forget and allowed others to enjoy life to its fullest.
He was not shy about expressing himself and often in a comedic way. I am sure that everyone who knew him could tell countless stories to support that statement.
There are so many memories, and we were torn on how to tell our Dad’s story in a way that would provide even an ounce of closure for ourselves and everyone else that is sharing in our loss.
We came up with a list and a short story to sum up our feelings for him and what we know to be his feelings for all of us here today.
• The Golf Course
• Guessing presents before opening them
• Setting the Garage on fire
• Grandma breaking a guitar over Dad’s head
• Driving the car on Dad’s lap
• Crazy answering machine messages left for us while we were away at college.
• Messing around at the driving range from the moment we learned to stand
• Gortex
• Lining up cars at the lot
• Manheim
• Helping train for the long drive
• The very first Pony ride
• Buying an ice cream cone instead of calling a tow truck
• Proper care for paint brushes
• Christmas Eve at Church
• Throwing feathers out the window
• Twas The Night Before Christmas
• Discussing horses and hitting the track for a few races.
• Christmas Morning garbage patrol
• Shoveling out the lot
• Bailey the Beagle
• Shattering the glass pane window at the driving range
• Nets Games
• All the nick-names
• Welcome to Texas Daddy
• Wildwood
• Killington
• Myrtle Beach
• Mesquite
• Belmont Park
• Clown shows outside your sisters bedroom doors when you were supposed to be going to bed
• Hitting wedges in the dark
• Putting on the string
• Unwanted golf lessons
• Pumping balls into the woods on number 8
• Cutting the grass in black pleated dress slacks, and a v-neck undershirt
• Meeting his twin grandchildren
• Holding and feeding his grandchildren
• Dramatics
• Impersonations
• And most important of all, cracking up, side splitting laughter often time for no reason at all.
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The Story we would like to tell starts with one of the most unlikely couples one could ever imagine. Our beautiful, prim and proper mother raised in Texas meets a used car dealer and aspiring business owner from Jersey and they fell in love.
It is forever suiting that their song is My Way and will only continue to be reinforced throughout their lives together.
Not to long after their marriage, they hit it hard and my mother became his rock. Dad lost it all, as he tells the story, and walked out with nothing but his jade pinky ring with no plan of how to make a living for mom and his three babies. He found a way; he worked twice as hard for half the reward but always did it his way and made sure we never missed out on anything.
About 10 years later he became a member at Mount Tabor Country Club and expanded his passion for golf. He made the bold move to leave the business he knew in Irvington for a fresh start with more promise in Morristown. Several years later he achieved his dream and bought his own property and had his own business.
I will never forget the night that our whole family was there to surprise him and we worked for hours in the night to move all cars to the new lot. We made banners, dug up pictures; we made toasts, and were all so proud and happy for him.
That is the lot that we all came to know and love, that was my dads little kingdom and his symbol of achievement and success.
When dad got sick he made the decision to sell the business and Mom was afraid for him. She new him better than anyone in this world and she was right to be afraid. She knew how much it meant to him and she new he was giving up the one tangible thing that marked his place in this world and made him feel whole.
What his death has taught me and should teach all of us here today is that the tangible things don’t mean anything. I truly in my heart believe that he figured that out in the past 7 weeks.
James Joseph DiOrio Jr. came into this world 58 years ago as a Son and a Brother. He left way to soon with several more titles a Son, a Brother, a Friend, a Business Owner an Uncle, a Father of five Children, a Grandfather of two and Husband to his soul mate.
He instilled in all of us a belief that it was more important to be a friend than it was to be any of his other titles.
His personality and idiosyncrasies have been passed down to all of us.
His legacy will live on for generations in the way that all of us behave. In his children’s personalities, in the way we teach all of our nieces, nephews, our children and our children’s children.
It should be so fitting that the story told here today ended the way it began, his jade pinky ring, his three children his loving wife and his last words on this earth were to tell mom he loves her.
Dad, I know you are here with us today and I know you knew you had everything the whole time.
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JULIE WHELAN posted a condolence
Saturday, December 5, 2009
OUr thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Kristine Del Rosso posted a condolence
Friday, December 4, 2009
"The angels are always near to those who are grieving, to whisper to them that their loved ones are safe in the hand of God."
With deepest sympathy.
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Nicole Capo posted a condolence
Friday, December 4, 2009
The one thing I can always remember about Mr. DiOrio is his smile and charisma. Two very important things to have in life. Suffering is never easy and losing the person you love so much is even harder. I hope that the DiOrio family look to the people who truely love them for strength and comfort. May the Lord keep them strong and may Mr. DiOrio rest in peace and look over his family and friends. Do not revel in loss, but think of the memories you have to keep your heart from breaking. I know what you are all going through and my heart is so saddened for you.
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Maryann Titone posted a condolence
Friday, December 4, 2009
Lauren,
All my prayers to you and your family during this difficult time.
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Nancy posted a condolence
Friday, December 4, 2009
Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you always!! Lots of hugs!
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Barbara Bragger posted a condolence
Friday, December 4, 2009
Cheryl,
My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family
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Ryan Peters posted a condolence
Friday, December 4, 2009
When I think of the memories we have shared together, we always seemed to have a blast. I will miss you so very much and wanted to say thank you for those wonderful times.
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Frank and Nancy Laracca posted a condolence
Friday, December 4, 2009
Words cannot express the pain we feel in our hearts over the loss of Jimmy. May he rest eternally in peace.
Frank and Nancy Laracca
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Kristen, Marco, Sienna & Cristiana Laracca posted a condolence
Friday, December 4, 2009
Glen, Jamie, and Lauren, may you find comfort in knowing that your father is now your angel watching over you and guiding your way. Mrs. DiOrio, may you find strength and peace in the beautiful memories you and Mr. DiOrio shared and created for your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire DiOrio family during this most difficult time.
Kristen, Marco, Sienna & Cristiana Laracca
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Melissa Lenter posted a condolence
Friday, December 4, 2009
Thank you for passing your love of horses to your beautiful Daughter Lauren. Without that love, I may have never met the woman that has become one of my dearest friends. I hope that the friendship that we share can help her through this sad time and that our shared love will bring her joy and sweet memories of you. Rest in Peace. Melissa
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Rita and Scott Efrus posted a condolence
Friday, December 4, 2009
Scott will always remember Jimmy for his great advice. If I called him with a problem he always lifted my spirits. Rita remembers his warm personality.We had good times together and we lost hime way too soon.
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Susan Behson posted a condolence
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Jimmy, I can't put into words how much I will miss you. I will look back and remember our years growing up together and how much fun we all had and how you always made us laugh. When I think of you I will picture the strong handsome brother who gave me away on my wedding day.
You leave behind a truly amazing family I know you were so proud very of.
Always,
Susan
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Elaine and Ira Gross posted a condolence
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Our thoughts are with all of you.
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Joyce Meeker posted a condolence
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Jimmy, You were truly loved and we will miss you dearly. You were just a wonderful person, cousin, father, brother and husband. We will meet again in God's kingdom.
Love, Joyce
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Stephen Klein posted a condolence
Thursday, December 3, 2009
My Uncle had always told me I was just like him. I will always remember how he made me laugh. He always had a joke or story to tell. You will always be loved and missed in my heart.
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Paul Johnson posted a condolence
Thursday, December 3, 2009
I am very sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
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Jane (Canace) Dann posted a condolence
Thursday, December 3, 2009
You have lost Jimmy far too soon. My heartfelt sympathy to Cheryl, the children and grandchildren, Lynn, Debbie and Susan.
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Jennifer Johnson posted a condolence
Thursday, December 3, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with the DiOrio Family during this time of grief. May you find comfort and peace in the wonderful memories that will live in your hearts forever.
Rest in Peace Mr DiOrio
Jennifer, Lauren, Rachel and Jessica
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Cheryl posted a condolence
Thursday, December 3, 2009
My Dear Jimmy, "My Baby" - what a life we led. I never stopped believing in you and your dreams. You worked so hard and grew too tired. I will always cherish our lives. Watch over and protect all we created. My heart is broken. I love you forever.
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Petr Skala posted a condolence
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Our thought and Prayers are with you and your family at this time! Our most sincere condolences.
Petr Skala & Amy Smart
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LORRAINE LIGHTFOOT posted a condolence
Thursday, December 3, 2009
We all send our prayers for you and your family.
Your Friend and Co-Worker
Lorraine
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Megan Zeh Schulze posted a condolence
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Mrs. DiOrio, Glen, Jamie, Lauren & Family,
Please know that we never lose the people we love, they live the rest of our lives with us in our heart. Cherish the wonderful memories.
With love,
Megan Zeh Schulze
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Jacque & Jeff Corcoran posted a condolence
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Dear Cheryl & family...
You are in our thoughts and prayers. May you find strength and comfort in each other in the days ahead.
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GLORIA AND PETER GASPARO posted a condolence
Thursday, December 3, 2009
CHERYL, GLEN, JAMIE, LAUREN AND DIORIO FAMILY, MY HEART IS ACHING FOR ALL OF YOU. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH ALL OF YOU. IF THERE IS ANYTHING WE CAN DO FOR YOU JUST ASK. LOVE GLORIA AND PETER GASPARO
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Mike and Lori Fox posted a condolence
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Mr D
Although we never had the opportunity to meet you. I feel as if we know you through your sons Jamie and Glen. The admiration they both held for you is a true testament to a great Dad and Friend. I know you will be very sadly missed.
Peace be with you
Mike and Lori
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Glen DiOrio posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Dad, I don't know how I will get used to you not being here. You will be missed more than words could ever say. My one comfort is how much of you is in Jamie, Lauren and I and least a piece of you will always be a phone call away. I love you.
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Barbara Canace posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
I will always remember Jimmy for the kindness and generousity he showed my Dad in the years after his stroke. Cheryl right there by his side. Rest peacefully Jimmy.
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Jamie DiOrio posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Dad, you were a father, a friend, and the man that paved the way for me to become the man, the husband, and the father that I am today, all of which I take so much pride in. Rest peacefully and know that your family will carry the torch that you carried for so many years. I love you.
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Rev. Jennifer Cho posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
May your soul rest in peace in God's graceland. God bless, Pastor Jennifer
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sue and vince achilarre posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Your kindess and unfailing sense of humor will always be remembered in our hearts Jimmy. Your journey in life was short, but touched so many lives and gave so many laughter even in troubled times. Rest always now in God's arms. Suzann and Vince Achilarre
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Jeannine Berrie posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Mrs. D, Lauren, Jamie, Glen, Andria, Michelle, Joey & Brianna, You are all in my thoughts & prayers in this difficult time. Remember the good time you all had, remember the laughter that filled your hearts and remember how great a man your husband/father was. I have many memories of my own which make me smile when I think of him. I love all of you. God has another angel to watch over us and he picked a good man! Love to all Jeannine
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Lauren Katz posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
May your father rest peacefully now, Lauren. My prayers go out to you and your family at this very difficult time.
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Sarah Scala posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Mrs. D, Lauren, Jamie, Glen, Andria & Michelle,
Words can’t express how sorry I am for your loss. May the God of comfort help you during this difficult time and may the love of those around you help you through the days ahead. I hope that you are able find peace and love in the memories you cherish. Heaven has another Angel today.
Love you guys,
Sarah
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Cindy Scala posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Rest in Peace Mr D.
Lauren, Mrs DiOrio, Jamie, Glen & Family - You're all in my thoughts and prayers.
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Lisa Zeh-Bannon posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Dear Cheryl & Family,
I am truly sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. Love, Lisa Zeh-Bannon
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Lauren DiOrio posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Rest peacefully Daddy. We love you will all our hearts. I know you are watching from above, but our world will never be the same.
